In primordial times, conception was simple - a healthy woman ovulated during the full moon and menstruated during the new moon, and conception occurred quickly, naturally and easily. These were times when the human body and psyche were not exposed to thousands of pollutants, stressors and obstacles. Unfortunately, today the number of women who struggle to get pregnant is growing at an alarming rate. Fertility is no longer an emotionally neutral, primal instinctual call to procreate - it is now fraught with social pressures, relationship struggles, physical ailments and reproductive dysfunctions.

My dear... there is much more to the ability to have a baby than just an egg and a nine-month pregnancy. If women are not taught to view their femininity, sexuality, emotional well-being and reproductive health as an inseparable whole - the process of becoming a mother will be full of increasing conflict.

There are so many fertility issues that modern medicine does not take into account.

The truth is that most women of childbearing age in 2022 have been exposed for decades to harmful toxins, pollution and excessive stress - all of which have a highly corrosive effect on our mood and reproductive capacity. Decades of taking birth control pills, unprocessed childhood traumas, experiencing emotional abuse in relationships, tense work situations, financial struggles, failure to prioritize self-care, recovery and health - each of these aspects plays a powerful role in the struggle to conceive.

By the time a woman reaches the point of "struggling to conceive" (failure to conceive successfully after 3-4 months of trying) or "infertility" (failure to conceive successfully after more than 12 months of trying), she often reaches even greater physical obstacles and mental stress in response to her condition, making conception infinitely more difficult.

Nature and evolution are extremely intelligent processes - you won't get pregnant unless "nature" feels you are in an optimal state to carry, deliver and/or raise a child in full health.

A woman's reproductive organs are the only "consumable" system in her body - they are not needed for survival. For this reason, reproductive capacity declines first when a woman's physical or mental health deteriorates. Nature knows that if a woman herself is not in adequate physical and mental health, she will face greater difficulties and risks of survival if a child comes along.

Of course, there are conditions in which women have unwanted pregnancies - but the neurochemical processes in these women are drastically different from those trying to get pregnant and cannot be put together in comparison. Whenever a woman attaches great importance/energy/commitment to trying to get pregnant, complex interactions of emotions and neurochemistry come into play - cortisol, adrenaline, processes of self-criticism, self-loathing and preoccupation with passing time and stress.

Stress negatively affects the process of conception, and it is literally impossible to remove the emotional stress and hardships of a woman's life from her struggle to conceive. Emotions are biochemical in nature, as is fertility. These two processes are closely linked for important evolutionary reasons: this only happens when a woman's well-being is balanced, as is the stability and security of her relationship and life as a whole, so that fertility can function at an optimal level.

There are hundreds of reasons why women struggle to conceive. Some are physiological, some are psychological, they can be structural, biochemical, neurochemical and hormonal. Some are emotional - related to generational trauma/inherited grief or related to unprocessed trauma in early life. Some struggles with infertility are related on a metaphysical level to the choice of partner and the quality of the relationship in which the child is trying to be conceived. Womb massage and fertility - combined with deeply conscious shadow therapy and trauma release, offers a powerful, holistic approach to becoming a mother.

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